Learning to write

This week I’ve been doing a lot of writing: journal entries, drafts of song lyrics, and many, many emails. Apparently this is my creative time of year for composing poems and songs, because Facebook Memories have been spitting back draft after draft from ten years ago just so I can take another look. (Where was I going? Was there a melody? Is this worth reading? Why did I share this with other human beings?)

My current theory is that it’s better to keep doing something as much as possible than to wait for the perfect time to do it perfectly.

Oh wait! Here’s an index card on my writing desk with an apt quote:

“One learns to do something by doing that which one is learning to do.” — Aristotle

Yeah, let’s go with that. I’m doing the writing, and by doing writing I am learning to do writing better. (Do better writing? Be a better writer? Maybe I should start over.)

But I think that I am doing writing better. It used to be, that when it was time for me to write my weekly blog post, I would have to chase everyone away and shut out all external input before I could sit down and write. Go away for a few hours, I am writing my blog post!

Gradually I became able to tolerate a limited amount of interruption. That’s really interesting what you’re telling me about Minecraft/Pokémon/the Internet, but I have to finish writing my blog post now.

Now I sit down when I have something I don’t want to forget to put in the blog post, and I start a draft. I get back to it when it gets close to the publication target, and I’m usually able to wrap it up before 11 pm Eastern time [not tonight, Zurg. Not tonight] and get the final post shared on my Facebook page. Ding!

I’m writing when I have time to write and when I need to write, not having to wait until all conditions are absolutely perfect. I can get started, I can write, I can edit, I can publish. I’m working on it.


Knitwise, my various projects are beginning to accumulate a fine layer of dust. I suppose that’s to be expected when I have been giving my attention to so many other activities, including doing my job, working my non-paying side hustle, keeping up with my reading, trying to remember to do yoga, getting enough sleep, and actually doing housework once in a while (I hope you were sitting down for that one).

In the past week I’ve added to this list Singing Carpenters Songs at the Top of My Lungs While Driving. It’s a vocal challenge for me, amuses the oncoming drivers, and might be keeping the wildlife off the road. So yay! It’s safer and more fun for everyone involved, especially on rainy days or Mondays when I might otherwise be feeling somewhat down. Right now I have a song for you and I’m feeling on top of the world.

New-homing

Even though I don’t plan to move for a few more years, I’m surrounded at the moment by others’ plans for new homes and new beginnings.

Firstborn has his sights set on getting his license, getting a new (used) car, and getting into a new line of mechanical work.

Secondborn has chosen a college, and they’ve made quite the detailed list of the things they’ll need by the end of the summer. (They’re also thoroughly sick of the high school experience and ready to leave all that behind — except for the friends they plan to bring along with them as college roommates.)

MiddleSon left his job so that he could take a break and get rehired to the same job at a higher wage and then accept a promotion (and another raise). He’s looking forward to driving, car-buying, and finding out what will come after high school for him.

Youngest turned 15 today, an excellent Mother’s Day gift for me; sometimes it lines up that way. Today we (MiddleSon and I) gave him the gift of a shopping trip. He usually hates to be dragged along shopping, but since this was all about him he had time to warm to the idea. We had a brief outing to Goodwill for other purposes, then we were off to a local shopping area to visit GameStop and Target, where we came up empty. Then someone proposed going to Half Price Books, and you don’t exactly have to twist my arm to get me to drive there. So I bought lunch for the boys (and a drink for myself) and we headed off to a larger town, a suburb of Milwaukee. HPB has followed by a jaunt to Best Boy, and then to a local CD/DVD/game resale shop, but it was during a trip to Barnes & Noble that we finally made it to the mall.

Youngest picked out two manga volumes and a pack of Pokémon cards at B&N, and I got a book as well, but it felt a bit odd to visit a mall. It looked almost as busy as in non-pandemic times, but we found that some of the stores we wanted to visit were just… gone. Signs in the empty retail spaces directed us toward “replacement” stores that didn’t have anything close to what we wanted. It was a reminder that the pandemic had kept a lot of businesses from moving forward, and I’m starting to become a bit concerned about where I’ll find proper shoes. (Thank goodness that sandals ought to suffice for the summer.)

Another new beginning concerns a car of our that we’ve taken care of since 2011. It slotted nicely into a #2 role in a car lineup that has varied widely over the years, but recently it has developed enough limitations that Eldest and I have come to the conclusion that it’s time for us to let it go and find a more appropriate second car.

Trixie at 12 years and 31,000 miles!

Trixie has been a family car since the day she was purchased by Opa Hall in 1999, and we love her. But we may have identified the perfect new owner — who once owned her identical twin! — and we’re preparing for her transition to a new home.

At work I have friends who are retiring after many years of service to the campus community, and I also have friends who are resigning to take different paths in their lives. Some people are keeping the same job but changing houses; others are adding to their families or to their educations. In many ways, the next academic year will be a difficult one for me and I’m doing my best to prepare for the changes. Busy is good — busy is good.

This week my household also transitioned to a new television, after the old one — which we had had for approximately three years — had quietly died. The new television, ordered sight unseen from Best Buy so that we could receive next-day delivery, turned out to be an Amazon Fire TV, which was not quite what we had anticipated. We eventually managed to hit upon the settings for viewing our cable channels and accessing the files on our DVR, but as of right now we’re still looking at it a bit askance. It may have been the change that finally shoved us out of our emotional comfort zone for the week. The DVR is mostly cleared out again, we’ve been able to play video games on it, and perhaps we’ll eventually try to access our Netflix and Amazon Prime accounts on it. But don’t make us go too quickly!

The dog is changing, too. With Monty’s last birthday and the conversion of his age to the human equivalent, he became the oldest creature in the house. I was still startled when the vet mailed me regarding [what I am calling] their Senior Discount package. It’s not exactly a Golden Buckeye card, but I’m going to sign him up. Monty’s beginning to show signs of changing and — in certain circumstances — slowing down, and it’s a good idea to be aware of the condition of his vision, hearing, and joint flexibility. The goal is to give him a comfortable life after the rough start he had to it, so this should help quite a bit.

Monty, 2015
Monty and ladybug friend, 2021

Some of these changes may look easy, but others are going to be traumatic. I hope that incorporating some positive changes that take the form of self-help will serve to ease my own path to the future. It’s a short life and we just have to do our best.


Knitwise, there’s been no knitting. I think about the “square” shawl I was working on, and remember anew that I should search to see if I have more yarn in the stash to finish it properly. Then I look at the other things I need to do, and I defer that task yet again. Most often I notice my dining room table, which has become too cluttered with various unfinished projects to allow any of us a place to actually dine. (Or breakfast, or lunch.) It has become a source of frustration for everyone, and this coming week I’ll try to get it cleared off. The week’s unseasonably cool temperatures should keep me inside, so I might as well make the most of the chance to make my living space more useful and less stressful.

Top 10 Best Pokémon Games

10. Poképark: Pikachu’s Adventure. Poképark is one of the most underrated spin-offs from the main Pokemon series, and Poképark has only seen one sequel. It’s a great world-building, friendship weaving, journey of a game that deserves much more attention than it gets.

9. Pokémon Platinum: Pokémon Platinum is everything a director’s cut expanded version of a game should be. Its only major flaw is that the games it’s based on, Pokémon Diamond and Pearl, aren’t that good to begin with. Otherwise, Platinum is a phenomenal experience.

8. Pokémon Colosseum: Regardless of what I said about Poképark earlier, Pokémon Colosseum is the definition of an underrated game begging for an HD remake. The more mature plot and new gameplay elements, as well as being the closest thing to a home console entry in the Pokémon franchise before Let’s Go makes this a game to remember.

7. Pokémon GO: Pokémon GO is great for the simple fact that is given in its name. It makes you go. It makes you want to continue to the next Pokéstop so you can go out and catch ’em all. A phenomenal attempt by Nintendo to keep gamers active and outdoors.

6. Pokémon Ultra Sun and Ultra Moon: Pokémon Ultra Moon is nowhere near the best, and it’s mostly because the Ultra Wormholes in the final segments of the game devalue shinies tenfold. Other than that, it’s the newest main series Pokémon game, and deserves respect.

5. Pokémon Ruby and Sapphire: Taking off the nostalgia goggles and the rose-tinted glasses still shows a good game, with little detriment to its value. Solid graphics, music, plot, and new Pokémon creatures makes these games excellent entries across the board.

4. Pokémon Black 2 and White 2: A sweet upgrade to the original Pokémon Black and White for Nintendo DS, and by far a better experience. More locations, a better plot, and including more creatures from generations I through IV.

3. Pokémon Emerald: Only slightly better than Pokémon Ruby and Sapphire. Add in the Battle Frontier and other new elements for a better experience. Everything said about Ruby and Sapphire holds true here, as well.

2. Pokémon Fire Red and Leaf Green: By far the best way to experience Kanto. A better art style than Ruby, Sapphire, and Emerald, despite being on the same console, yet a worse composition, despite being on the same console.

1. Pokémon Heart Gold and Soul Silver: The best experience in Johto possible. Everything added in is there for the simple reason of making the game better. No lame gimmicks made simply to add a bullet point on the back. A swansong for the ages, and a must-have for any Pokémon or RPG fan.

Author’s Note: This post was made by MiddleSon, and the fact that it was written in ten minutes means that opinions contained therein may not reflect true feelings as accurately as intended.


Ahem.

I would like to thank MiddleSon for manning the keyboard and upping tonight’s word count as I paced about the home library, wondering what tonight’s topic might be. Well, it might as well be Pokémon.

mareep

I resisted the lure of the Pokémon for what felt like a long time, at the time. In retrospect, it seems like a millisecond. There were the cards. And the video games for each type of console. And the game guides. And the stuffed toy creatures. And the TV shows. And the movies, for goodness’ sake! And now we also have board games, discovered at thrift stores.

pokemon master trainer game

The school was against Pokémon, perhaps because kids made card trades on the bus and on the playground and occasionally took advantage of each other. If the kids were caught with Pokémon cards during class time, they were usually confiscated and sometimes thrown away. My kids didn’t actually play the card game, so I didn’t understand why they needed all the cards and why I needed to spend so much money on them. Every trip to Walmart or Target was punctuated by a purchase of a card pack for each child. I also never understood why MiddleSon never seemed to get a pack with an awesome card, even when all packs were from the same series and they were handed out at random on the drive home. Daughter or Youngest always seemed to get some kind of legendary rare shiny that absolutely blew his mind. It was so unfair.

pokemon arceus

After a few years, however, they convinced me to play the card game with them. Suddenly I understood the need for all the card packs, the deck boxes, the game guides, and the endless searches of Bulbapedia. Certain creatures of certain types had different moves, defenses, attacks, strengths, and weakness against others. It was a complex strategy game that was not at all easy even to play — let alone to win — unless you had already amassed a great deal of specialized knowledge.

That’s when I started to become a Pokémon advocate, online and in real life. And I advocated it right back to my kids. Someday, I said, you’ll study science, or history, or the catechism, or law, and your ability to create a multidimensional, conditional database in your head will become a very good ability to have. To other adults and parents I said, At least Pokémon Go is getting them outside. I must add that the year that Pokémon Go was released, our summer vacation trips became a lot more fun. We stopped at rest stops and visitor sites more often, wandered around a bit more, and generally paced ourselves better as we hunted for Pokéstops and gyms.

Lo and behold, my prophecy seems to have come true. They can hold amazing amounts of conditional and interactional information in their heads. It’s not always about Pokémon these days — although sometimes it is — but there is no doubt in my mind that the Pokémon experience has been for the better.

Published in: on January 24, 2019 at 11:55 pm  Leave a Comment  
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